My thoughts./ 12/01/2005 10:48:00 AM
Thursday, December 01, 2005
Morning guys. Just went to have breakfast with my mother. Had a great conversation, and a eavesdropping on a consultant at blackmoore( vitamin company). Hee. Anyway, I've been thinking lots and lots about love. What is love, and why does it exist? Love is a human-made emotion, and It can do many things, ranging from happiness to suicides. But what makes sucessful (some say, True) love so good? Is it really that worth it? Quote his holiness the dalai lama, "Human beings cannot survive without compassion, Kindness and love." But is it that true? In my opinion, Love is not worth it, whatever it may be. It is a waste of money, time, and emotions. If the relationship fails, the person can literally go mad. Even if it is sucessful, One day the relationship must end, and the longer the realationship is, The harder and harder it is to let it go. It is like a drug, Once you take it, All of your mind goes "Eat more drugs, Eat more drugs, Eat more drugs, Eat more drugs," etc, etc. and, Without the drug itself, you suffer so much, you experience confused emotions. You feel lonely, withdrawn, most importantly, Useless and unhappy. It gives temporary happiness, You feel great, I can understand. but one way or another, things must end. Quote the oracle from the matrix, "Everything that has a beginning neo, has an end. I see the end coming. I see pain, suffering. I see death." But why do people think love is so worth it? Men and women show their true colours after marraige. a classic example is an aquantince, who was married to a man. Before marraige, The man showed his love, did so many things to prove his love to his partner. Finally, the got married. had a son. Then, things started collapsing around them. The man gambled, drank. Used the mother as a cash cow. abused the family. One day, he left, and left behind pain, misery, a broken family. And now, they rely on another family for support. What appeared to be true love was so beautiful, like a flower, a cherry blossom. but what happened was that the cherry blossom burst into flames..and started an inferno..but however, let's look at a sucessful relationship. Both partners are happy, and they lived happily ever after. and that's that. But the true relationshp in this world must detiorate after a while. There are so many factors, the economy, market, enviroment. Kids! Especially stress that can break the relationship into two.
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